As caregivers, we need comic relief from time to time.
A few years ago a well meaning friend gifted me a beautiful book about a woman who had cared for her loved one who had Alzheimer's. "I thought you would enjoy reading this," she said, "I found it so inspiring."
I delved right in but found the book to be heart-rending rather than uplifting, and soon cast it aside. When in the midst of a battle, graphic descriptions of the battle scars of others are not what is needed. My devotional for caregivers keeps this fact in mind; inasmuch as possible I avoided too-graphic descriptions of my suffering and focused instead on the Lord's solace and help.
Caregivers need respite, and I find mine through writing about subjects other than Alzheimer's. Writing a book isn't much different than scrapbooking, quilting, or any other craft. It is a creative process that requires focus and concentration, and there is something incredibly refreshing about becoming so immersed in a project that time slips away. I urge all caregivers to find some "away-from-caregiving" respite that brings this kind of refereshment.
Meantime, if you are in need of a bit of comic relief today, head over to my other blog and read about Farmer John and his cows. You can't get much further from taking care of a dementia patient than that!!! Click here: The Cow Whisperer.